I, too, have a rough and quite hard time to move on. It takes me around 2 years to move on from one of my ex.
But I believe, everyone can move on/out.
No matter how hard it is
No matter how painful it is
They just have to try and let God Take parts in your move on/out thing
And of course, believe they can do it
Mungkin sebagian dari kita ada yang gitu aja ditinggalin
Atau ada yang ditinggalin baik-baik
Atau ada yang terpaksa ninggalin tapi sebenernya gak mau
And what do we do after that? We move on/out.
You can't stuck on someone like forever
What if that someone never truly yours? That's why they grow apart? That's why you have to let go?
Ga move on/out itu terkadang bukan bukti kalau kita setia
Kalau orangnya bisa balik lagi sukur, kalo ga? Ya lepasin.
Kalau masih bisa baik-baik ngomong sama org yg harus dilupakan, ya ngomong. maybe you can work things out
But, in my case. He did really want to talk about it, and maybe work a thing or two out. But soon, its all turned into a huge fight
Or whatever it is
That is the first time in the last 6 months I had my first-long-conversation with him. Yha emang sedih & ngerasa kenapa ya tega bgt ngomong kayak gitu, mikirin perasaan orang ga sih?
Lalu abis itu pengen banget cerita, tapi ga ada yg available. And I decide not to tell anyone
Instead of telling anyone, I continued watching HIMYM and cheer myself up
And then I realized, the more you tell your friends your story,
the more you remember,
the more you can feel the pain
and of course, the more you can't move on
He, indeed, gave me a rough and hard times to move on.
But it's worth it
I mean.. 2 years? That's quite a long time
And these rough and hard times he gave me
Those are now my greatest strength
And you know what? I've moved on! :)
So the point is.. When someone left you
you can tell your best people, you can cry out as many time as you want, don't start to fall in love with anyone because believe or not that anyone is just going to be a "pelampiasan", go have some fun with your best people, watch comedy movies or tv shows ( how I met your mother is highly recommended, hehe XP ) and do whatever such things that will not remind you of your ex.
But if you already feel sad, burdened or whatsoever for like about.. Forever? Just stop being sad, stop telling stories about your ex no matter what he/she did, and be awesome instead.
Ted was right. "The only thing that can heal a broken heart, is time"
Good night! :)